Even the most experienced members of the glorious sugar bowl had to start somewhere. Each one had a first date with a potential sugar daddy or sugar baby that they were probably pretty nervous about. Each one also had their own personal reasons for wanting to see what sugar dating was all about in the first place as well. Most importantly of all, each one ultimately found what they were looking for in sugaring.
In other words, you’re in excellent company if you’re completely fed up with traditional dating and wondering whether sugaring might be a better fit. It’s also totally normal to be nervous and a little uncertain when you’re brand new to the sugar bowl. The following tips can help you get started on the right foot and take the stress out of the process
Behonest with yourself.
Ask any long-time sugar dater why they eventually made a permanent jump to the sugar bowl, and the great majority of them will tell you they prefer the honesty that comes with sugar dating. No one’s playing games in a sugar relationship or pretending to be in it for something they’re not. Both parties know exactly what the other party is and isn’t expecting.
That said, any sugar journey should start with a sincere attempt
Would-be sugar daters aren’t like everybody else. They’re people who not only have a high social value as compared to your average Joe or Jane, but are well aware of it. They’re also tired of wasting their time on less evolved individuals who can’t relate to them on their own level. In other words, they’re the type of people who have confidence and self-esteem in abundance.
Can you relate to the above description? If so, you’re already well on your way to being perfect for the sugar bowl. If not, it’s time to kick things up a notch in the confidence department. Stop second-guessing yourself and worrying about the “what ifs”. The chances are pretty good that if you’re thinking seriously about sugaring that you’re already the type of person you need to be. All you need to do is become uber-confident in that fact.
3. Get comfortable with frank communication.
Successful sugar relationships are based on honesty, but honesty on that level doesn’t just happen. It’s the result of open, free-flowing communication that starts the minute the two people involved meet one another. That said, it’s vitally important that you become next-level comfortable with expressing yourself and being frank about a lot of things. They include, but are not necessarily limited to:
- What you’re willing to offer your partner, as well as what you expect from them in return.
- Anything and everything related to emotional, mental, and physical intimacy, including to what degree (if any) each will play a role in the relationship.
- What you want for your future, as well as the role you see a potential partner playing in that future.
- What your absolute deal-breakers are and what you’re willing to compromise on.
4. Be your true self.
If you’re like most people, you’ve probably been told to “be yourself” more times than you can count, but how good have you been at actually doing that? Sugaring offers people a golden opportunity to truly be who they really are, as well as to be genuinely appreciated for it by someone else within a relationship context.
It’s time to embrace that wonderful opportunity for everything that it is. Embrace the true you, and get excited about shamelessly putting your authentic self out there. There’s someone in the sugar bowl who’s looking for exactly the person you already are. Are you ready to finally meet them?