We all know that sugar dating can be so much fun and chances are, you’ll have the time of your life while mingling and mixing with different types of Sugar Daddies in the Sugar Dating world. However before you rush into venturing into it, you need to keep in mind that in every scenario, there will always be a few rotten apples with the intent just to spoil the party. Such perverts and scam artists have been known to make it and even crop up even among the best sugar dating websites, where they’ll pose as potential rich Sugar Daddies only to prey on innocent young Sugar Babies. Keep these rotten apples from spoiling your fun by following these safety tips for Sugar Babies.
First Contact Impression is Vital
Prior to your first date, it’s always a good idea to get your POT SD to do a video chat or send you their pictures. If a Sugar Daddy will offer you money for your secret photos, proceed cautiously because this is often a red flag for a fake, but if you’re cool with it, ask for at least half the money up front. This is quite common in most types of online business transactions, especially freelance jobs, so this should be acceptable. If your POT starts to hesitate at this idea, well, that should be a red flag that he/she is fake or might be new to sugar dating. Likewise, if disbursement has been made for your date, he needs to pay half up front. You should also, refund this payment if the date gets canceled for any reason.
Protect Your Information
Your full name, where you live, and where you work or go to school are details that you shouldn’t provide publically. All of these details might come up when you start chatting with a potential Sugar Daddy, and they seem like harmless details to share, but we highly advise keeping your information to yourself in the beginning. Once you find a mutually beneficial arrangement that works for you, you can share these details with your rich older Sugar Daddy. But in the beginning, create a mock identity that’s close to your actual personality and details and use that until you’re sure your wealthy Sugar Daddy is trustworthy.
Insist on a Public Meeting Place
This one is (or should be) obvious and pertains to all online dating situations. Even if you have been talking to a potential Sugar Daddy for an extended period of time, the first meeting should always be in a public place with plenty of other people around. Under no conditions should any POT Sugar Daddy come to your home for the first meeting. This is a major red flag. If he invites you to his place, gracefully decline. Of course, there’s the scenario where you might be flying out to meet a potential Sugar Daddy for the first time, which is a whole different concept that should be handled extremely carefully.
Occasionally, a Sugar Daddy will offer to pick you up in his car. Politely decline. How he responds will be a good indicator on what kind of guy he really is. To be honest, most meetings with strangers are going to be fine. Most rich Sugar Daddies are nice, friendly people. BUT it is always better safe than sorry. Meet at a public place and arrive separately.
Have a Buddy on Standby
Sugar dating and online dating in general has a bad rep sometimes, and it’s understandable if you are hesitant about disclosing this new activity of yours to your friends. At the same time, someone’s going to need to know where you’re going and who you’re meeting. If you don’t want to tell your friends, do yourself a huge favor by logging onto your sugar dating website(s) and reaching out to a few Sugar Babies whose profiles resonate with you. It is so important to have a confidante and safety buddy when you’re sugar dating. And most Sugar Babies will be happy to hear from a fellow Sugar Babe and are quite possibly looking for the same sort of safety buddy, too.
It is not a bad thing for any healthy, young Sugar Baby to have a sex life with her rich Sugar Daddy, however, you must wait until you start getting an allowance or an allowance arrangement has been formulated. Some may claim they want to see how you perform in the bedroom first, before giving you the allowance, but most of these types are likely to be fakes or even scammers. Just know that whatever you will be getting out of this arrangement, one should never force you to do or have you offer them more than you had previously agreed at the start of this mutually beneficial arrangement, especially when it comes to sexual relations. Sugar Babies are not prostitutes or escorts and should be treated with the respect due a lady.